A special day..

25th September 2006....my 24th year of existence on this earth... a day of rejoice or a day of ___??

Each has his or her own individual uniqueness & u can't find anyone else exactly like u..




Yep..i'm 24 years old..yupz i' have entered into adulthood for 4 years.. am i suppose to be different then??

Illustration:

Imagine this scenario:

In a courtroom, plaintiff: acquaintances of Cyndiz
defendant: me...
Case: acquaintances sued that Cyndi a lady of 24 yrs old shall act like a typical adult, it seems irritating to their eyes.. seeing her acting like a kid when she hanged out with teenagers. They feel that the judge shall give a rule to her that adult should behave like an adult.

Plaintiffs consists of tom, dick ,harry, mary & susan...

Tom: I saw her working in the restaurant with her colleagues.. oh my i couldn't believe my eyes when i saw her whacking her colleagues butt & chasing one another around.. her colleagues are teenagers, but she? she is...

Dick: (interrupts) ya lor ,ya lor.. the manager hire her to work not to play.. the teenagers playing is okay de, afterall it's a normal thing & it's part of growing up.. aiyohz..if u dunno her, u might think she is a teenager with a chao lao face...

Harry: u should have seen her when she's out of love manz.. she cry like a crybaby.. a bit, a bit also cry.. pple don like her, she cry.. the guy she likes ignore her, she cry.. manager say her also cry.. think can present her the crybaby award..i mean have u ever seen an adult cry so much??

Mary: Wah sehz, when i was a teenager & haf a crush on my classmates, i behave exactly like her.. always missing the guy, then when he not around or ignore me, i wld sulk the whole day & tell my frens how i miss him.. but now.. i don't le.. wah piang, don u think crushes are only for young gals??

Susan: erm.. though i don't know her that well... Pauses... but erm... well... pauses.... she work full time....but...then... she don behave like her other colleagues in the office....she still so......see the pictures she take.... still so act cute......pauses... makes one feel so... this law should be set on her.. if not i can't imagine her acting cute 5 to 6 years down the road..

Me: hey.. old uncles & aunties, look at me.. do i look as old as u all?? who ever say that adults should not enjoy life.. come on.. life itself is already so serious & work load is so much & problems never seems to decrease.. if i have to behave so serious.. i might as well go hang myself the minute i turned 21.

Me: humans should be flexible.. if u are around the younger ones, obviously u shall relate to them, be interested in what they like & just flow with them, everyone has a little kid inside of us..it's just that some doesn't show it so obvious or they only show it to those whom they are close with.. and plus my best friend don't see the childish side of me & on the other hand, my colleagues at clarke quay don't see the other side of me..

Have u seen a waitress with no smile.. giving a solemn face all the time, keeping quiet all the time, then when someone starts a topic, i start telling them about shares, politics & economy...
they would immediately get turn off & start talking among themselves.. i behave according to the situation, when i'm in office i'm more quiet.. most of the time i would be doing my work.. when my manager or colleagues talk to me, i would not whack their butt or laugh crazily.. i would just talk to them normally & by nature i'm more of a quiet type.. i mean if u wanna talk serious stuff, bring it on man, i can discuss with u over what's happening around in the world, be it polictics, business or the economics...

Tom: shows










She's so much older then the rest but see this, this is a good evidence..

Me:









It's tough being an adult, i mean if there's a choice i would wanna stay young forever.. so that i don need the face the stress of paying bills, facing the polictical workplace, not knowing who to trust & working 9 to 5 kind of life.. no more school holidays but only Public holiday & clearing leaves.. problems that only surrounds me the most would only be BGR.. but it isn't for an adult, the responsibility is greater & u can't fool around & stick out your tongue when u make make mistakes & hope the boss would not scold u.. i feel that balance is the key to life, though i'm not perfect but this is the way i'm.. everyone has their own personality, so if because i'm afraid of how others would view me and change accordingly..won't i have spilt personalities then?? my life ain't simple enough so if i have to carry the additional stress of behaving mature enough for people to be convinced & please everyone.. i would be a robot and then following the instructions of others & not living my life for myself..

Life should be lived to the fullest.. ain't it? i have the freedom of choice to chose my friends & behave how i should.. no matter what... the friends i have right now, to me they are my friends for life.. I am the way i am.. wherther it pleases anyone or not.. this is me.. just me..

Judge: After hearing the views of both parties, i hereby conclude that the defendant is not guilty. Everyone has the freedom of choice, if God gave us freedom.. are u higher then God if u were to force a person to act the way u think he or her should?

Hmm.. the above characters are fictiticious, so if your name happen to be the same as above..don be over sensitive, i just have to come of with names that comes to my mind.. i came up with the above scenario because i have people who said that i was childish & etc.. so yupz, above are all my defences...



.