stop interrupting my life

Initially, when i started blogging on friendster, i wanted to just release my frustration somewhere without disturbing my friends.. so i decided to blog and it didn't matters wherether would there be anyone reading it ornot but as times passed and as i entered more entries, my friends commented & apparently it felt good that someone cares but now that i switch my blog to Blogger, my comments part is sooooo empty except for 2. Anyway, i decided that such matters should not affect me and i shall continue to blog as usual like any normal being on earth, well afterall i'm not Xia Xue, so it's obvious my blog is not viewed by strangers.. so well.. hack care la.. the best is no one read at all then i can just type freely on anybody without fearing that i would offend anyone ornot...

Wonder why some people like to change people the way think they should.. i mean everyone in life has their own freedom to decide their OWN life and do what they feel suit them the most..

Ever since i started working as an account assistant in National Healthcare Group, i have friends that said :

"hey, u are a diploma student, why u go find a Temp job, pay is so pathetic.. u r pulling down the market rate, think u go find audit line kind of job or those that pays well"

"think you should go find an audit job"

" Are u an accountant? (duh, with a diploma, i can't be an accountant).

Me:account assistant

the person:"at least it's better then nothing to do"

I meant no offence..

The person who said the 1st statement is a friend who knows me realtively well, the person is smart & is working right now in a well known firm.. but..

i know u all meant well for me and maybe u meant no harm when U said that. but hey..there's a chinese saying that says "Shou zhe wu yi, ting zhe you xing"..i get hurt when U all said that.. i mean as friends, instead of saying that,u all can wish me all the best or ask me about the job scope and not to make comments about it..

I'm not trying to be problematic, thinking that no one can give me advice & knowing what to do in all situations. There are only so far 2 person whom i listen to.. one is my Best friend, Jingyin..she knows me for 6 years..so to a certain degree, she knows me well enough to know what's best for me, afterall she's the one who advised me to go into Accountancy back in ITE, if not, i won't be here working in this position..

2ndly.. it used to be my buddy.. yep, though he's younger but when it comes to problems, he gives quite good advice.. that was in the past.. now that our friendship has drifted.. i can't comment on it using present tense.

Other then the 2 person, I know myself well enough to decide what i can take, true, i was a bit indecisive wherether i should take up this job when i went to the agency, cause it's a temp job, it's pay is below the market rate for a diploma student and i have to make a decision on the spot. I did take into consideration the pay, it being a temp job and i had other job offers being a full time job.. but i took up this up because it is a well known Company being a group that is in charge of quite a few hospitals accounts, i can learnt a lot from there and i have to start from the basic.. if i were to take on a higher pay, i might not be able to take it, cause i can't take office life and i'm quite a slacker.. I know myself well enough and if ever i have to regret, it's my own fault then.. i have no one else to blame but myself..

So well.. if only everyone would mind their own business, how perfect would this world be..

Though it seems we have drifted apart, u will always remain as an important person in my Life...i would never want to lose contact forever..coz i juz want to know how's yr life going & I'm satisfied enough to know that u r happy & successful.